Feelgood:
I found mine when I was a TA in his English class. In high school. Six or so years before we were intimate (now we're engaged, very happy together - not usually the way it turns out). At the time, he was a friend that I wasn't particularly attached to, and wouldn't have minded never seeing again when our jaunt was over. I didn't expect anything substantial to happen.
I suppose it's more likely that one will fall in love with their "friend with benefits" when they already have an established friendship, and many common interests.
Hope this helps.
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