I guess I have a negative outlook on my exboyfriends, everytime I think about Dylan (a guy i dated long-distance for two years) I get really angry because I realize what an idiot I was. He never had any money, I paid for so much stuff, lame presents for christmas when i spent a good deal on something he really wanted. He was always constantly thinking that he had some life-threatening disease. I don't think he ever cheated on me, but my suspisions were there when he went to New Zealand for three months. I just get really frustrated with myself for putting up with so much bs from him. I thought I had loved him for some time during the relationship, but we went through alot and it was hard. I found myself crying over him too often, men aren't worth your tears, and they shouldn't make you cry.
My boyfriend over the summer, POST-Dylan, Nate was a good guy, he was sweet to me but he such a pussy...I dunno I just can't date a guy who cries more than I do.
Hopefully your feelings aren't quite so negative toward your ex's like mine are.
If you feel really strong toward them, give a call and catch up!
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