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Originally Posted by Sultana
Just so you know, this is a bit of a dangerous wire to balance on...I wouldn't mind being tied up, but being led on, then left...you better not ever untie me, as I'd murder you in your sleep.  |
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I know it's a bit of a dangerous wire. I didn't mean to take it to extremes or anything. I know people in a serious bdsm relationship who have done this with their submissive counterpart. Now, I have nfi if his wife wants a bdsm style of relationship, but if she likes to be tied up, she may just enjoy the feeling of complete loss of power. It was just a thought. :shrug:
If she did get mad and ask why he did that, he could simply say he thought she would like it because she liked being tied up. It could leave the door open to more conversation and may even lead to her opening up about a possible bigger issue. People often say what they really feel when they are mad.
I'm not a shrink so .. I'm probably way off anyway.