When I said "all smiles" i meant with no complaints and acted (don't get me wrong...i enjoy restraining her...but not as much as her and not all the time) like I was all about it.
As far as talking to her about it...I easily give it a few hours or a day.
I am against counseling as well....but I'm willing to try anything to save our sexual relationship. Thats why I figured if I didn't get horny...it would never be an issue. Kind of dumb...but like I said...I'm willing to try anything. I even thought about going on Prozac because it was recommended by a doctor for my anxiety but I was against taking pills of that sort, but now with one of th epossible side effects being a decreased libido or longer duration before orgasm (the whole my performance in the sack issue).....i'm willing to disregard my whole belief on those type of meds.
Yeah, after re-reading what I just typed, I sound pretty pathetic and desperate. But I'm not really that pathetic. Desperate to fix this...yes, but not pathetic.
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