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When is the last time you two traveled somewhere new or tried something exciting?
Things like skydiving or other activites that bring out a rush of endorphins can cause a sexual urge. Sure this may be a one time thing, but it's also a time and feeling that she may want to duplicate. Maybe you should replicate your first date, first fuck. Make it interesting. Send her a note that you need her to meet you where you first met and show up looking like you did and go from there. Hell I don't know..but I'm not a fan of counseling so I'm trying to help out here.
You said you do it all with smiles. Perhaps you should play the bad guy when she's restrained. I mean.. you don't smile while she's tied up do you?? Also, how long do you wait to ask her how it was? Do you ask while she's cleaning up? If so, give it some time. Let her breathe then later on.. much later, ask her how it was and what she liked. If you are worried about how good it was to her and you ask her too soon/too often, she may be getting the idea that sex is a chore. :shrug:
About the pill thing, my wife has a huge sexual appetite (sorry I'm not bragging here) and the pill never changed her sex drive.
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