She was on the pill for a couple of years....but has been off of it for a year. The first month or two of her being off of the pill was great. It was almost every day (just like how it was the first couple of years of us dating). But now that she is off of it, I can't really blame the pill, but instead my performance.
I decided that I am going to give it another try talking to her about it, but letting her know that counseling will be the next step.
guccilvr, I tried doing the things she is into. I am not much for restraining someone but she is....so I do that..all with smiles...i do research on it for different ways...ask her what she thought about it afterwards, what she liked, what she didn't.
Its really gotten to the point where I feel like the reason she isn't into it anymore is because I just can't satisfy her (lack of stamina), or I'm just that bad
(even though she insists that isn't an issue). But thats when the toys come in
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