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Originally Posted by Sultana
I wonder if you make an appointment with a counselor, if that would get her attention. So many times people just blow off recurring problems until they become well-nigh insurmountable (no pun intended :P).
Do you feel like you're doing all the initiating? If so, and if you didn't initiate, how long do you think you guys would so without? How do you perceive her response when you do initiate?
To address the original post, I don't know of anything that can be relied on to lessen the libido, but seriously, I don't think that's the answer to your problem at all. You probably know that already as well.
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I've thought about going to a counselor or mentioning it to her just to show her how this seriously affects our relationship.
Honestly...I've given up initiating. Its a real self esteem killer for me when I get denied over and over and over again so that its gotten to the point that I just don't try to initiate. And I've told her this as well.
Within the past year she told me that she wanted to be romanticized (which she never did before), so I even tried doing things like that for her....with no results.
and ghoastgirl....if I tried holding back the dick from her.....I would never get any.
Don't get me wrong people, I know that sex isn't everything in a relationship....but its definitely up there.