I wonder if you make an appointment with a counselor, if that would get her attention. So many times people just blow off recurring problems until they become well-nigh insurmountable (no pun intended :P).
Do you feel like you're doing all the initiating? If so, and if you didn't initiate, how long do you think you guys would so without? How do you perceive her response when you do initiate?
To address the original post, I don't know of anything that can be relied on to lessen the libido, but seriously, I don't think that's the answer to your problem at all. You probably know that already as well.
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