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Sexual issues are usually the first place that relationship issues show up. Probably 97% of the time that lurkette and I have butted heads regarding sex... it wasn't about the sex.
Notice that you don't feel listened to or appreciated about this issue. That you feel taken for granted, that your needs aren't addressed with anything long-term. THAT'S what there is to deal with. The sex will happen or not out of that getting dealt with.
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