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Durex has a good condom that stalls climax... it uses benzocain to numb the penis. Although this doesn't sound appealing on the surface, it apparently works. I don't have this problem though... my problem is the opposite. A lot of times during sex with my wife we'll be a good half hour in to the "home stretch" of our 2hr lovemaking session... and by then she's pretty tired but I still haven't come. For a while I was just having to finish things for myself, BUT... as an earlier poster has pointed out, yoga and other meditation techniques really help. Sex lends itself well to meditative techniques, as really good sex is an almost out of body experience. So when I find myself not able to come in that "final stretch," I turn to my state of mind rather than the action itself... it's hard to explain but it really helps. I'm sure it would help with your problem too.
And by the way... 20 times in 8 minutes? Wait... 8 times in 20 min... that's still pretty spectacular lol...
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