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Originally Posted by analog
In all fairness, it's not "his" place, it's her place... she's obviously the one who makes the bread. It's not your fault that the ex lives with her. I understand wanting to respect the man's living space and his friendship, but he'd have to be the biggest (literally) idiot on the face of the planet if he thought this would never happen.
HE needs to man up and realize she's going to have boyfriends/partners/whatever, and either take it or leave. Assert yourself along this thread now, and I think she'll like you even more for it.
Congrats on the way you've been handling it, btw. Good man.
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I have to say that they do split the bill. She's a store manager and he works at a law firm (lower level stuff though, not as an actual lawyer). So from that respect its half his. The first few nights I got ahead of myself and just kind of busted up in there so to speak. Obviously it was with her invitation, but I think to do things right, it should be more gradual than, me all of the sudden spending time over at her place. I dont plan on letting him run me or her off, I just dont plan on doing it all at once. I'll probably watch a movie or something later this week at her place, and see how that goes.