It took me forever to come off a vibe, or so it seems. I personally always felt guilty using one as I would never really 'come'.
Then I gave up sex with the ex, cause it just really sucked and I so just fell way out of love with him. The first time I came off a vibe I was shocked. I stopped feeling guilty!
However, I started using them more though! I found the first two o's easy. The 3rd was harder to get to, but well worth it.
Personally, I'd perfer the tongue or fingers of my partner than the vibe, but a girl has to do what a girl has to do. I would think if you let your partner know you are becoming too dependent on it, for them to tease you with it/withhold it, and then talk to you about letting you have it or not, might just build you up enough that you don't need it?
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