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Mantus · 11-12-2006, 04:20 AM

Hey Digilogic. I’ll try and give you some insight from my personal experiences and lessons taught to me by others that have proven to be very true.

You have to have a belief that women love and enjoy sex. There is no need to trick women into sex or pay for sex in one way or another. Women will be more then happy to have sex with you if they feel comfortable with you.

You have to have a true friendship. If you are hanging around a girl because she threw you into the friend zone and you are hoping that she will change her mind then your relationship is based on deception and it’s doomed.

The first step to making her comfortable with you is you have to be giving. You are offering her something, not asking for anything. The decision is in her court.

Communicate to her that:

- You are not interested in being her boyfriend, nor do you want her as a girlfriend. Explain to her that while the respect, admiration and friendship are there – you lack a romantic pull towards her. The chemistry simply doesn’t fit.

- She is your friend and that makes her much more important and interesting then some random girl you want to sleep with. That friendship is important to you yet here you are a boy and she is a girl – and aint that a nice arrangement.

- You will not interfere with her pursuit of Mr. Right, nor would you stop persuing and sleeping with other girls…infact, you’d appreciate any pointers or suggestions and will be more then willing to reciprocate and help her hook up with guys she may like.

- You are going to leave the ball in her court and there is no urgency at all and nothing will change between you either way…but you know it will be fun and you’d be a fool not to let her know that you’d enjoy having a no-strings-attached relationship with her – without any judgment.

Now you are offer your friend something she wants. She may take it or she may not. Either way, she will consider your offer and it will raise her self-esteem and confidence. But if you change after you make this offer. If you try to get her instead of simply offering yourself to her then she will see though your game and the friendship will probably fall appart.

11-12-2006, 04:20 AM	#20 (permalink)
Mantus lascivious	Hey Digilogic. I’ll try and give you some insight from my personal experiences and lessons taught to me by others that have proven to be very true. You have to have a belief that women love and enjoy sex. There is no need to trick women into sex or pay for sex in one way or another. Women will be more then happy to have sex with you if they feel comfortable with you. You have to have a true friendship. If you are hanging around a girl because she threw you into the friend zone and you are hoping that she will change her mind then your relationship is based on deception and it’s doomed. The first step to making her comfortable with you is you have to be giving. You are offering her something, not asking for anything. The decision is in her court. Communicate to her that: - You are not interested in being her boyfriend, nor do you want her as a girlfriend. Explain to her that while the respect, admiration and friendship are there – you lack a romantic pull towards her. The chemistry simply doesn’t fit. - She is your friend and that makes her much more important and interesting then some random girl you want to sleep with. That friendship is important to you yet here you are a boy and she is a girl – and aint that a nice arrangement. - You will not interfere with her pursuit of Mr. Right, nor would you stop persuing and sleeping with other girls…infact, you’d appreciate any pointers or suggestions and will be more then willing to reciprocate and help her hook up with guys she may like. - You are going to leave the ball in her court and there is no urgency at all and nothing will change between you either way…but you know it will be fun and you’d be a fool not to let her know that you’d enjoy having a no-strings-attached relationship with her – without any judgment. Now you are offer your friend something she wants. She may take it or she may not. Either way, she will consider your offer and it will raise her self-esteem and confidence. But if you change after you make this offer. If you try to get her instead of simply offering yourself to her then she will see though your game and the friendship will probably fall appart.