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In all fairness, it's not "his" place, it's her place... she's obviously the one who makes the bread. It's not your fault that the ex lives with her. I understand wanting to respect the man's living space and his friendship, but he'd have to be the biggest (literally) idiot on the face of the planet if he thought this would never happen.
HE needs to man up and realize she's going to have boyfriends/partners/whatever, and either take it or leave. Assert yourself along this thread now, and I think she'll like you even more for it.
Congrats on the way you've been handling it, btw. Good man.
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