Holy SHIT, you mother is a manipulative little player, ain't she?
You're an adult, not a baby. Do what YOU want for the holidays and that includes as little stress as possible. Hell, go out to a movie instead and forget the holiday altogether.
I can see why you two go to therapy....you'd be wise to cut ties with both families for a while.
Edit: Nikki, LPM, et al: This bears repeating over and over: No one can take advantage of you without your permission. If you KNOW these mothers, sisters, etc., are manipulative and you give in, what's been accomplished? They do what they do because they can; every speaker needs an audience.
No one can take advantage of you without your permission. And that includes laying a guilt trip on your heads.
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Don't blame me. I didn't vote for either of'em.
Last edited by ngdawg; 11-08-2006 at 01:51 PM..
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