Kevin I understand your situation, as I have also a VERY controlling mother. She is the queen of guilt trips and if I don't give in to what she wants, she makes my life, and that of my husbands, miserable. In all of my 31 years I have yet to figure out a way to handle this. It seems that no amount of proclamining my independance and adulthood has mattered in the least. Good luck to you and Lily in this matter.
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