I wouldn't say run away. She withheld her phone number while dating another guy (like you said, that come across as fairly classy). The living with the ex does bother me. Why is she living with him? Make sure and explain to her that it's uncomfortable for you. The ex seeing you probably pisses him off, and it's certainly awkward for the two of you. If you're comfortable with asking, ask what other living options she could possibly pull. She might mention moving in with you. Explain to her that it's too early in the relationship.
I think the key here is to make sure and communicate, continue to feel things out. Running away is not communicating. Of course, if something really irks you be honest about it with yourself and with her.
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