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Was she living with her ex while dating the ex you first met her with? I'd ask her why she's living with him--I'd expect she'll say it's just a convenient living situation, and there's no relationship, etc. However, it's still undeniably strange, and obviously he feels uncomfortable and is making you feel uncomfortable. You should tell her this (the uncomfortable part, not nec. the "strange" part, heh).
The thing I'd be most concerned with is getting involved with a gal who doesn't seem very emotionally independant.
Did you tell her that "its too early for me to be feeling that attached to anyone?" I hope so. If so, what was her response?
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At night, the ice weasels come." -
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