Oh boy thats a toughie... The father of my daughter that I had to give up for adoption is someone that I have never ever stopped thinking about. We were trying to stay in touch. He went over seas and I got a dear Jane letter from him. He married a Korean woman, something I never forgave him for. Years later I was cruising my local phone book and discovered he was back in town, he had been stationed here again. I gave him a call to say hi whats up, and he totally freaked out. So I decided to go looking for him on the base to see what he looked like. He was not anything like my romantic fantasies had made him out to be!!! He had changed so much that I was shocked. Sometimes its better to leave the memories where they are and dont go trying to dig up the past and see where things might go. I learned a hard lesson that day. Leave things in the past thats where they belong. If you are truly meant to be together, you will find a way to be together.
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