justadude

ok guys (and you girls that can be honest with a guy that's really disillusioned right now) i just had my guts torn out and handed to me by a girl that i thought was better than that...

we have been dating for about 4 months now, but have been best friends with her for more than a year before we ever "took the plunge". this girl is probably the first girl i've ever felt comfortable with giving my feelings and doing it without holding back and i did just that. i tried to be the good guy and tell her what i was feeling and what i wanted from her (big mistake guys, keep that stuff a mystery!)... i gave everything i had and fell hard for her fast!

i could type for pages and pages giving you background on the situation, but long story short, she went away on holidays and came back with the "i've got feelings for someone else"....

i haven't been able to sleep, eat or function normally at work since she dropped the bomb and i feel totally betrayed. now, before you guys jump all over me and tell me that i'm a baby, suck it up and get over it, please understand i'm a guy that falls hard when i do (and that's not often) and i've totally got a problem i don't know how to deal with right now...

any and all suggestions would be great to hear... (and if there are good women out there that have advice, i'd be glad to hear it)