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cowudders14 · 10-17-2006, 12:58 PM

Hi all,

Thanks for the kind words. Sorry I've not got back sooner - I meant to get online last night but had a totally screwed up day.

Anyway, we stoped seeing the sex therapist a few months ago. We had finally succeeded in having sex and it seemed that we were starting to explore and have fun. We assumed it would all be ok. We are due to go back to the therapist in a few weeks time to have a final closure/progress check. I'll make sure I debate that well with the therapist when we go. I agree that she is having trouble "letting go". Then again, I suppose she took so long to just let me go 'down there' at all that it's still fairly new and almost scary for her.

I think I will also try the drink, although that might have to wait for the weekend. Leaving the house at 6AM and driving 100 miles to work isn't really condusive to drinking the night before! (That's just this week - I'm working on site).

ngdawg - She does say that the clitoris hads a lot of sensation and that it's a bit too much to cope with. That's presumably why. Thanks.

SB - We are both 27 so I'll take that as "the best is yet to come"

We have many sex books but they all seem to assume a starting point of a bit further than we are at the moment. Also, no kids yet, so again - "the best is yet to come".

Thanks everyone.

10-17-2006, 12:58 PM	#7 (permalink)
cowudders14 Bringer of good Moos... Location: Midlands, UK	Hi all, Thanks for the kind words. Sorry I've not got back sooner - I meant to get online last night but had a totally screwed up day. Anyway, we stoped seeing the sex therapist a few months ago. We had finally succeeded in having sex and it seemed that we were starting to explore and have fun. We assumed it would all be ok. We are due to go back to the therapist in a few weeks time to have a final closure/progress check. I'll make sure I debate that well with the therapist when we go. I agree that she is having trouble "letting go". Then again, I suppose she took so long to just let me go 'down there' at all that it's still fairly new and almost scary for her. I think I will also try the drink, although that might have to wait for the weekend. Leaving the house at 6AM and driving 100 miles to work isn't really condusive to drinking the night before! (That's just this week - I'm working on site). ngdawg - She does say that the clitoris hads a lot of sensation and that it's a bit too much to cope with. That's presumably why. Thanks. SB - We are both 27 so I'll take that as "the best is yet to come" We have many sex books but they all seem to assume a starting point of a bit further than we are at the moment. Also, no kids yet, so again - "the best is yet to come". Thanks everyone. __________________ Moo! I'm mooey!