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Originally Posted by analog
Ok first of all...
DUDE. SERIOUSLY. lol... pay attention! You can't even remember the really big super-secret compliment she gave you? Little things like that will come back to bite you in the ass... and you should be paying attention anyway.  |
The problem is, when I talk to her she's not the only thing on my mind. My life is really busy at the moment so I always have stuff on my mind that I'm constantly thinking about. Not to mention I get complemented fairly regularly by people, and while I'm quite flattered by the compliments I get, I don't remember individual ones.
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Why are you asking if you should? If we all said no, would you seriously not ask out an attractive, single girl who apparently likes you? You need a friendly smack in the back of the head.
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I don't like to ask out girls unless I have a pretty good idea othat they will accept. Got rejected a few too many times when I was younger because I was a shy kid who was slightly chubby.
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Now here's a funky gray area, though it should not stop you from asking her out... but i've maintained there's a difference between a girl saying, "you remind me of my brother because of x" and "you're like a brother to me". The former I've always seen as a simple comparison. The latter is usually the kiss of death. Really though, she's specifically comparing you to someone because of some specific quality, not just saying "you're like a brother to me".
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That's how I thought of it originally. That sounds pretty reasonable to me (:
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Just ask her out, man. If you don't, someone else will- so do it now.
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I think sometimes you just need someone to tell you to just fucking do it. Good advice (:
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Originally Posted by feelgood
Its interesting that you recommend him to ask her out, especially when she's on a "break" with her bf. Now that's a big grey area that I wouldn't want to mess around with. Anybody remember that friend episode where Ross and Rachel was fighting about the "break" BS?
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She told me they broke up. That was about 4 weeks ago so I don't know what's happened since then because I haven't really cared to know. I'm sure she would have brought it up if she's back with him or dating someone else.