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Originally Posted by Gilda
I've cybered with Grace's full knowledge and consent, and on one notable occasion, her participation. For us it's a shared fantasy; so long as I'm climbing in bed and having real sex with just her, she doesn't give a damn.
Gilda
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what occasion was that?
As for if something is cheating or not cheating.... something is only okay in a relationship if Both parties consent to it and are being open and honest with each other about it.
If he's lying to you... yes indeed, I'd say that's cheating.
Cheating, to me, is defined by something someone is hiding/keeping secret and it could be anything, including texting based on that defin.
I'd encourage you to keep communicating about this issue with him, trust can only be re-built when honesty and openess is taking place. And if he can't be honest with you and continues lying to you... you're much better off without him. Everyone deserves to be in a relationship build on respect and trust, that includes you.
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sweetpea