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It just seems a little odd that a case presented like this, so cut and dried and obvious, would require input from relative strangers on "what to do?"
Although I will admit that the act of writing things out can help a person identify patterns and things that may not have been so obvious to someone in the thick of things. Forest for the trees and all that.
I hope that this is the case here. If things are presented accurately in the OP, then I'd say it'd be much more devistating for kids to learn that this is how you treat your spouse than to deal with the effects of divorce. If that's the only reason she's staying.
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