I've been confused by the last few folks asking for the OP for more information.
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Originally Posted by josie333
How do you get over a cheating husband?
For the last two years I have been dealing with this woman, who is bold enough to call our home and ask my husband out on dates. She does this even after I answer the phone. I confronted him serveral times about it . I also spoke with her and she agreed never to talk to him again. That only took her 1 min...she called from my driveway. This continued for a year. He swore he wasn't talking to her.
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Dates? And then still calls. He has admitted that she calls surely. And for a YEAR??? This isn't a form of cheating?
Cheating has so many meanings but the big one here is
deceiving.
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I love him but he is driving me out of my mind. This is what I am considering. Stay living together. We are great friends and have a lot of fun together. Like roomates, not lovers. I continue to let him do his thing with her. I find someone who wants me for me. Right now, all I am to him is a front .He wants everyone to thinks he's happy with his family. Appearence is everything to him.
What should I do?
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But, this is where it finally breaks down (to me). And that is being content to let whatever is "going on" with this "other" woman to continue. Which she implies that maybe she can live with the deceiving spouse.
Whether he is sexually unfaithful or not, there are still lies and deciet running rampid here. And as many of you men say, "If he ain't gettin' it at home, he has to be gettin' it somewhere."
Decieving can destroy any marriage. And unless two people are willing to communicate, I don't see a solution. So, in this instance, Josie must choose since she says her husband isn't.....other than he is happy to leave it like it is............."a front" for appearrances sake. A COVER UP. Hello???? If this ain't deceiving, I don't know what is!
More details? Come on folks! Unless you want to get her husband online here, we only have her comments to go by! She asked us a simple question. Jeeze.
Josie, if you want to go into more details, go right ahead darlin'. I was only pointing out what "deceiving" is.
