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i have a dear female friend who is asexual. she just doesn't care about sex. she also isn't interested in any sort of a relationship that would require sexual intimacy. she has many close friends that she loves dearly, has deep conversations with, and cares about the well-being of these friends as though they were all lovers. but none are. she has been called a lesbian because the majority of these friends are female and no one external to these friendships realize that there is no sex involved.
as for the evolutionarily fit aspect: she is raising her parents' 2 younger kids (6 and 8) since her dad passed away last year and her mother went insane. i'd say that she's doing her duty passing along what she can.
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"Sometimes I have to remember that things are brought to me for a reason, either for my own lessons or for the benefit of others." Cynthetiq
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