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Originally Posted by ratbastid
Hunh! That's a very nice interpretation. Not at all the one I made, but nice! 
To clarify: I was never with the girl in my dream, despite a lot of wishing and wanting on both of our parts. And, if I were to see her in waking life, odds are good I'd have lurkette's thumbs-up for most anything we'd want to do together. But the explicit thumbs-up is a requirement, and evidently is so even in my dreams! |
Whether it's just 'getting hot' or getting it on, it's important to remember that, while dreaming of having sex can be just dreaming of sex, more often than not the sex itself is representative, as is the person we're doing it to in the dream.
The results you get from the dream are more important than any outsider's interpretation of it as well, but a lot of people don't know how to make the interpretations or connections and just assume they were dreaming about sex with another person. More often than not, that's not the case at all.
Kali: That pale colored text doesn't show up on the lighter formats...
Ah...there we go...
Dreaming about sex isn't a matter of being 'satisfied' 99% of the time. Read my other posts about that. For instance, dreaming about having sex with a boss might be showing a desire to control or 'get back' at that boss (sex as a means of control). Dreaming of a 'happy sex' with someone from the past might be reminding you of some of the sweeter times of that time period-not necessarily with that person, per se. It's also important in analyzing dreams what the entire scenario is, what happens before and after, etc.
I'll give a prime example of a sex dream with a moral: Recently, I dreamt that my best (male) friend and I were sharing a house with both our families, as if on vacation. We kept exchanging glances of desire, but couldn't get time alone. Fnally, he followed me into a bathroom and we went at it on the floor, only to realize the door wasn't locked and his son started to walk in. My friend abruptly stopped, leapt off me and we sat on the floor talking to his son as if nothing was going on.
To me, the message of the dream was very clear: It was affirming my feeling of unimportance in the grander scale of this person's life, while acknowledging the mutual feelings we have. I shared both the dream and what I thought it represented with the friend. No one should be afraid to share sex dreams with their SO or anyone they trust and love-they give insight to conflict, emotions and desires.