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Originally Posted by jth
random update just cuz i'm bored
I appear to be correct in my views that she was just seeking companionship. Our respectively busy schedules despite having 2 classes together and her desire to date people and my desire to not date people means I believe she gave up and now is head over heels for another dude at school. I figured something like this was going to happen when she would find someone else to deflect her attention to. She still is very young for her age, it's almost like she still has that 'high school or freshman' attitude... it's quite unappealing
Which makes it easier for everyone involved now because now there is no pressure on me, we can just have a good friendship thing and I'm down with that.
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I've read this whole thread and the comments. It seems like you made the right decision, if it was indeed the right decision, for I'm not sure. I mean, it really didn't go anywhere. I mean, you made no move and therefore she moved on. Seems pretty simple to me.
I also agree that your education is very important. And I am also over 20 yrs older than you and hindsight is always better than foresight.
Good luck. Glad it all worked out for the best. Also, once the degree is out of the way and your career is on the move, don't be too busy to read the signs!!! ;-)