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Originally Posted by Apache
My husband and I have been together 8 years (married for 7) and we have had this very problem lately. When we first met it was like most relationships, hot and heavy and all the time. But since the birth of our son (he's 18 months old) my sex drive seems to have disappeared and his has gone through the roof.
It used to be 5-6 times a week maybe more, and now it's about 2 maybe 3. It makes me so mad too, because I love sex but something happened to where it's just like "whatever". When we do have it, it's still GREAT, I just have a very hard time getting in the mood. It really really sucks.
I like this theory though because it means it's not just me. LOL
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Ah, the mothering gene has turned on, and the sex gene has turned off.
BTW, 2 to 3 times a week is still pretty often, especially for a couple that has been together for 8 years.