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Most of my married friends cheat. Male or female, at some point or another, adultery occurs.
I've come to find it more amusing than disgusting, but I think that I am older than most people on this forum. There is an old saying which is oh so true...
"I used to get disgusted, now I just get amused"
My one friend who is married that I cited in my previous example does not have a GF on the side. He picks up women easily as he is a good looking guy and very charming. Women just go for him in a big way. He never hides the fact about being married. Sure, he gets turned down when the women find out he's married, but more often than not, they don't care and the panties come off. He has had a series of trysts, call girls, etc., but he has never ever had a GF on the side. That just gets too complicated. He's in it for the sex, not the heart. He has that at home.
As I said, of all my married friends, his is the strongest of all the relationships I have observed. Now, that's not to say that by him having trysts that the result is a happy marriage, however, my point would be that just because one has a series of affairs, does not preclude one from having a happy marriage.
Though, he does have to be careful not to get caught since his is not an open marriage.
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