Sorry for the late reply.
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info about HIV.debate aside, it is a fragile virus.I understand why people would be concerned.The only scenarios in which I can see your children ebing at slight riskin a usual house scene is if they were to mistakedly use his toothbrush or razor. and stil the transmisiion rate woukld be veeeeeeery low!
congratulations on your open mindedness and compassion though