The thing that slows us down is always timing...one of us is exhausted when the other is the mood, or one's just not in the mood, or one is busy doing something else, or I'm too anxious to do it. When I can't focus on my partner I'm not overly interested in it.
Life happens, and it often interferes with your sex drive.
But you can easily be intimate without sex, and as long as you feel you still have that, then everything is a-okay.
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