Yep. What those guys said ^.
Her email response seems strange - the only interpretation I can come to is that she actually enjoyed spending time with you, and realized or decided that she didn't want to get back together. Still, that email was inexcusable harsh.
Personally, I would tell her "I didn't deserve that. If you don't want to get back together, then that's your choice. But there's no reason for us to hate each other."
It sounds like you are letting your ex control you, and she is letting her mother control her. The mother should let her daughter live her own live, and you ex should stand up for herself. However, you can't make either of them behave well. The only thing you can do is stay away, stand up for yourself, and move on.
Not really sure if I can help much with the pain that seeing her will cause - I've been there, and the only thing I can say is stick it out - it *will* fade, even though it doesn't seem like it now. Don't let her actions hurt your education.
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