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*sigh*
We have this problem to - with myself as the partner with (much) more of a drive. We've tried to work on this from several angles, and haven't found a really satisfactory solution. I think there has been at least one time when I said 'no thanks'...because:
o I had literally just finished 'taking care of business'
and:
o I pretty much thought she was offering out of obligation.
So, for now, I'm not totally happy with the situation, and not sure how to 'fix' it. The 'other options' that Mantus mentions is, alas, not a possibility for me.
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