I think you would get a lot of help from a support group called Alanon. It is a group of friends, spouses, children, siblings, etc of alcoholics. A lot of areas have similar groups that focus on druggies instead of drunks. Her family's rehab center could put you in touch with a group, if you can't find one yourself. I used to go when I was married to my drunk husband. It's also free.
Lindy
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