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Question: Do you love her as she is now (even messed up) or do you love what she was (assuming she wasn't addicted at the point you two were together).
If you're willing to get over the idea that she may never be the same person she was before (and she won't, the addiction will be there forever, memories, body needs, whatever) then I would say try to maintain a friendship at least. Clearly you're aware about the issues that could come along with that and as long as you're smart about it, go for it.
As for a relationship; a possible future relationship will be shot if you try to have one now. It's hard to get past the memories, arguments, etc of the bad drug days.
I recommend friendship. Best wishes to you both..
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