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hambone · 09-11-2006, 08:45 AM

You love this girl, right? And that is not contingent on the reciprocation of that love back to you? Then my personal advice is to follow your heart. If you love this girl as you say and genuinely wish the best for her, do all in your power to help her. I do agree with all that say a relationship with her in the sense of you two being a couple does not have the odds in your favor, BUT I strongly disagree with the side that tells you to just write her off because she is not good for you.

You can still be there for someone and not be 'used'.
You can give of yourself and not be a considered her puppy dog.
You can extend every possible ounce of help and assistance to better this woman and not lose your own integrity or quality of life.

I will never ever agree that someone is a lost cause. Never. Can you 'change' everyone? Nah. But you can do your absolute best to be a bright point in their otherwise dark life, whether they are able to recongnize it at the time or not.

Not sure if this helps, but I wish you the best.

09-11-2006, 08:45 AM	#10 (permalink)
hambone Zeroed In Location: CA	You love this girl, right? And that is not contingent on the reciprocation of that love back to you? Then my personal advice is to follow your heart. If you love this girl as you say and genuinely wish the best for her, do all in your power to help her. I do agree with all that say a relationship with her in the sense of you two being a couple does not have the odds in your favor, BUT I strongly disagree with the side that tells you to just write her off because she is not good for you. You can still be there for someone and not be 'used'. You can give of yourself and not be a considered her puppy dog. You can extend every possible ounce of help and assistance to better this woman and not lose your own integrity or quality of life. I will never ever agree that someone is a lost cause. Never. Can you 'change' everyone? Nah. But you can do your absolute best to be a bright point in their otherwise dark life, whether they are able to recongnize it at the time or not. Not sure if this helps, but I wish you the best. __________________ "Like liquid white from fallen glass, Nothing to cry over" Last edited by hambone; 09-11-2006 at 09:36 AM.. Reason: i mispelled a word, changing the meaning!