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Originally Posted by Sage
Ustwo, I think JinnKai was suggesting the OP find someone to talk to about the situation. A relationship counselor could help the OP (sans his lady) because they'd have more expierence with problems encountered in a relationship. I think the OP knows that he's on his own here.
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Only there isn't a relationship here anymore. Take the drug issue out and everyone would be telling him its over, but the drug issue I think clouds peoples thinking. If Fallen wants to help her get off drugs again, thats a great thing, but I'm warning him that as a relationship, forget about it.
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Yes, go talk to someone. Distance yourself from this woman. Do it because you love her. If she ever loved you, she'll come back to that love and it will buoy her up in desperate times, but unfortunately that's something that SHE will have to realize. There's nothing you can do for her right now- this is the life she's chosen and the ball is in her court now.
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This whole concept worries me as one sided. Its saying to me, 'let her use him' and quite frankly people deserve better in a relationship then it being one sided. Whats going to happen when shes back on her feet? I'd be willing to bet shes off again. Being the nice guy thats always there for her, come thick or thin means she has no reason to be faithful or give anything in return, as he will be there for her....again.