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I think you need to explain to her exactly how you feel and then let her know that if she wants to have any sort relationship with you in the future that she needs to get her sh!t together. You need to let her figure herself out I think, it works with any sort of substance abuse relationship... the abuser is generally extraordinarily selfish and will let it destroy whatever relationship they have until they realize that they have nothing left and then start making the changes to try and get some of it back after they decide they wish to clean up. Or they let the drug control every aspect of their life until they die or end up locked up.
Right now said person has no reason to stop abusing. Why would she, you seem obviously very attached to her, so she gets attention from you when she wants it, even if she doesn't want it and still gets to fix when she wants to. Heck, you're still holding onto a relationship after she's moved on 2 months prior.
To help her there are addiction centers all over the place, you can visit one and get a meeting with someone and as a professional for information on how to do an intervention with her, get her information about substance abuse with her drug of choice.
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