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Originally Posted by ngdawg
If they're 'taking care of it' themselves, lower sex drive isn't the problem. Either they're bored, angry or out of love/attraction.
Time for a sitdown.
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It's the partner with the higher drive taking care of their sexual needs on their own because whenever they try to iniate the lower drïve partner isn't interested.The lower drive partner initiates very infrequently and usually always only at the times that are the worst for the partner with the higher drive.
Bottom line-the higher drive partner is sick of feeling like sex is only offered to them like it's some sort of obligatory chore. I'd just as soon say skip it and masterbate.