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Originally Posted by JustJess
From your post, it sounds like he is a controlling manipulative guilt-tripping person who would like to blame everyone other than himself for all that is wrong with his life. Don't buy into it. It's not your fault.
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I agree with everyone here, but what Jess said rang even more true for me. Your father sounds a lot like my mother... she just pulled another one on me tonight, actually. Believe me, you will get NOWHERE by believing a single word that comes out of your father's mouth. Everything he's saying is coming out of his own shithole of insecurity, guilt, and inadequacy. NONE of it has ANYTHING to do with you, whatsoever. Put it all on him, man, because that's where it belongs... whether or not he realizes that. Do not let him poison you. YOU OWE HIM NOTHING.