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JustJess · 09-06-2006, 11:18 AM

DO NOT DO THIS. HE IS WRONG. I REPEAT: DO NOT DROP OUT OF SCHOOL. YOU ARE NOT A COUNSELOR, AND IT IS RIDICULOUS THAT HE WOULD EXPECT THIS OF YOU.

This situation is of his own making. Maybe you could get them back together, but who cares? This is HIS problem, not yours. From the sounds of it, your mom is completely right to leave him. He is not good for you, he is not good for your mom, and he is not good for your sister. You probably wouldn't have acted out like that (in the previous events) if he had been a good father. Be there for your sister to help her not experience this the way you did years ago. Who the hell is he to blame YOU for HIS wrongdoing? 5 or 6 times is 5 or 6 times too many.

From your post, it sounds like he is a controlling manipulative guilt-tripping person who would like to blame everyone other than himself for all that is wrong with his life. Don't buy into it. It's not your fault. It's not your fault that he hit your mom, that bullshit about you being in China stressing him out so that he hit her? Pure fucking bullshit, and that's putting it lightly. If he loses everything and goes bankrupt, it's not your fault. It's his fault. He is the adult, you are the child, and you do not have to take responsibility for his life. Only yours. Let your parents work it out for themselves. Just worry about you, and your sister.

Oh, and DON'T DROP OUT OF SCHOOL FOR THIS.

09-06-2006, 11:18 AM	#4 (permalink)
JustJess Unencapsulated Location: Kittyville	DO NOT DO THIS. HE IS WRONG. I REPEAT: DO NOT DROP OUT OF SCHOOL. YOU ARE NOT A COUNSELOR, AND IT IS RIDICULOUS THAT HE WOULD EXPECT THIS OF YOU. This situation is of his own making. Maybe you could get them back together, but who cares? This is HIS problem, not yours. From the sounds of it, your mom is completely right to leave him. He is not good for you, he is not good for your mom, and he is not good for your sister. You probably wouldn't have acted out like that (in the previous events) if he had been a good father. Be there for your sister to help her not experience this the way you did years ago. Who the hell is he to blame YOU for HIS wrongdoing? 5 or 6 times is 5 or 6 times too many. From your post, it sounds like he is a controlling manipulative guilt-tripping person who would like to blame everyone other than himself for all that is wrong with his life. Don't buy into it. It's not your fault. It's not your fault that he hit your mom, that bullshit about you being in China stressing him out so that he hit her? Pure fucking bullshit, and that's putting it lightly. If he loses everything and goes bankrupt, it's not your fault. It's his fault. He is the adult, you are the child, and you do not have to take responsibility for his life. Only yours. Let your parents work it out for themselves. Just worry about you, and your sister. Oh, and DON'T DROP OUT OF SCHOOL FOR THIS. __________________ My heart knows me better than I know myself, so I'm gonna let it do all the talkin'.