I don't really think she sounds immature. It's not like she has a list of 100 stupid little things. The things she's mentioned are quite a big deal. I personally would want someone who understands my career and the amount of work I have to do.
I firmly believe that a marriage or any relationship can't survive on just love. If you two have totally different mind sets then it just wouldn't work. For example, I need a husband who doesn't see me as the traditional wife who stays home cooking and cleaning. No matter how much I loved him I just wouldn't be happy like that.
She may not find exactly what she is looking for, but I see no problem in her setting those standards.
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