i've got an important point to make to all the unsure fellas on this thread and i wish i'd learned it at that age.
there is a currency in relationships between guys and girls.
girls want attention.
guys want affection.
if you are a nice guy and giving a girl all the attention she wants, she's going to take that attention and go give her affection to a guy that she has to in order to receive attention from him, thinking she can have her cake and eat it too. and she'll be right.
if you're interested in dating a girl be careful about giving away all your attention too freely. it will get you pigeonholed into a "just-friend faster than you can say "blue balls".
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