Doctor_Max

So my girlfriend and I were talking last night and apparently she has feelings for another guy, but still wants to marry me (we were engaged but called it off about a month ago). She wants to see whether these feelings are nothing or if there is something more. And to do this, she wants to break up with me and date him for a bit. She says one day she'll show up at my door and I'll know that she's mine. At this point, I still love her with all my heart and still want to marry her. But shes liked this guy for a couple months.

I don't know whether I should wait around for her or not. She says she'll know in a month but I don't know how certain she is. I should mention that she's my first girlfriend and we're both juniors in college. I've known her since high school but have only dated her about a year.

I just don't know what I should do. I really love her still and she tells me that she loves me too (I really believe her), but for her to give the other guy a fair chance she can't be in a relationship with me. I want to be with her but it hurts so much right now to be in limbo like this.