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Shoe,
I make it a rule never to ask a girl to lead or take initiative. Not because she cant do it but because she doesnt want to be in that place. If you want to party and go out, get a social circle to party and go out with, then invite your girl. If you want to go out with your girl's friends, then you get one chance to hang with them and make a great impression. That night you trade numbers and contact info to make sure they will be inviting you. If you fail to make a good impression and just end up hanging out with your girl the whole time...they wont specifically ask her to bring you and thus your girl will feel uncomfortable...which is never a good possition to be in.
I hang with club girls. I know they are going out, making out and probably sleeping with other guys on the side. That's something I have to accept. Even if I have a very sexual and adventurous relationship with them, booze, drugs and hormones are a bad combination. Trust me I KNOW this. Clubs are a BAD place to leave a girl alone if you are the jelous type.
When I go into a club how do I know if a girl is with her BF or if she is just being hit on by a player? 9 out of 10 times if she is having FUN and laughing and being overtly sexual then she is not with her BF. That was a big eye opener for me.
What you really have to ask yourself is if you actually want that party life or if you are there to keep an eye on your girl? If the later then my advice is to strengthen the relationship on your side instead. Pull the girl into YOUR world. Take the lead and responcibility for her adventures. Increase your sexual dominance and energy.
Something to note for your future relationships. Cheers man.
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