She wants her own little world her way. She wants she and you to have the "couple relationship" while she is having the "single relationship" with her friends. I'm guessing here, but I assume that while she may or may not be doing anything physical with her guy friends, she is flirting with them. Taken from everything you've stated in your posts, you should move on. The best way would be honesty. Tell her you don't like that she excludes you and only wants you around her when *she* thinks it's necessary.
Had you only been dating a month or two, then wanting to be with her when she is out with her friends is a bit possessive.
Since you have been dating ( im assuming exclusively ) for over a year, then her purposely always leaving you out is uncaring and disrespectful to you.
You will find someone else that makes you feel like this girl does/did and respects you. If you stay in this relationship, it will probably only get worse. Just my 2 cents.
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