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Originally Posted by james t kirk
You sound very possesive and she's not that into it.
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How do i sound possessive ?
I can assure you that i am not. I used to be a little jealous but i have come to terms with all of this a long time ago and can safely say that i let her do whatever she wants.
Maybe i havent described the situation as well as i should have.. I believe i have reason to be pissed off about her actions towards me and regarding her friends. She blew me off several times to go out with her friends when we had some set plans for the night. I saw her less and less during that period and believe i did the right thing when confronting her ( talking it out ).
She never wanted me to be around when she was out with her friends. She told me she did not want me to see how she acted with her friends. She also splurted out this little diamond :" I would not want you to act with your female friends the way i act with my male friends". WTF ?
As i see it i was very understanding, caring and had a will to fix things. I trusted her, even when i was a little jealous, and she goes out and kisses another guy. I never forbade her to do anything nor have i ever demanded she did anything. All i told her was that i felt us slipping away from eachother and i was concerned about it.
There is a limit to the amount of shit im willing to take.