Smooth23

I know yall are prolly sick of hearing about my relationships and lack there-ofs, so I'll keep this to more of something resembling a rant. So after my girlfriend dumped me, I went out with one date and clearly knew from moment one that I didn't care for her. Tonight I went out with a totally new girl. We went bowling, she brought her 13 year old cousin(it was more of a meet each other type thing(we met on net) and I dont think she felt comfortable being alone). Anyhow, I really really liked her. I got the same sort of gut feeling that I had the first time I went out with my ex that I fell in love with. The problem is, I couldn't read this girl at all. She seemed genuinly tired, and she said she was, cause most the time she was just sort of blah. However, she did joke with me some, and let me get physically pretty much as close as I wanted with her(arm around her, hand on her.. nothing real sexual of coarse). Clearly she is very shy, she warned me before hand that she was. I just cant read her though. I know she is at least somewhat afraid of being played by another guy, something I'm not in the slightest bit interested in doing. I was also very pleased that she turned out to be far more attractive than the pics I saw of her. Well, not much of a question or anything here, just a GRRR, cmon girl I need a sign. I will say at the end of the night (2am) when bowling was done, she couldn't seem to get out of there fast enough, but like I said before, she was super tired the whole time- plus her cousin that came with her wasn't feeling to good. I hate how girls confuse the hell out of me, simple it up please ladies?

ETA: its never my intention to date around, I want to find one girl I feel a connection and genuine attraction to physically and mentally and stay with her. Just thought I should clarify