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Originally Posted by Jason762
I'm 21.
When it comes to relationships I am quite... unexperienced. I shy away from girls because of lack of self confidence.
As for the rest of life, I'm not sure how experienced I am. When it comes to taking care of myself, I can do better than 95% of my friends.
I've had an odd life and upbringing, so you may not be able to understand how I think.
But anyway, I didn't think it was "love" but it was the best word I could think of. I know it's odd what I feel for her, but love doesn't exactly fit. At least, not yet.
She's going to Japan for a few weeks, and I think I'm gonna go "under" so I can focus on work and working out so I can get in better shape. My self confidence is lacking because of that.
Anyway, thanks for the help.
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No problem. An important thing to remember is that confidence will carry you further than being in shape. Don't let the fact that you aren't rock hard and cut keep you from making a move. Just follow some pretty basic rules of hygiene (bathe, deoderize, etc.), and carry yourself like you have nothing to fear.
Because really, you don't.
And if you can't be confident, FAKE IT. It often works just as well.
Veritas et Lux!
Jimmy The Hutt